Quite a while ago, I wrote, The REAL Reason Why White Men Don’t Date Black Women. To date, it is remains my most read and commented on blog. Recently, I got this comment from a white man that I thought was quite interesting. If you haven’t read the original post, you may want to do so before reading his comment.
As a white man who has frequently dated black women I gotta say that a few of the authors points are right on. Nothing can turn my head faster than an attractive black woman. However I never desired marriage because I didn’t want black children. I did end up marrying a woman who is mixed latina and white, but none of this has to do with racism. I am proud of my family heritage and want to continue it to some degree. I am flat out not interested in 90% of asian women, but I dont think that makes me a racist either. Bleached blonde white women bore me, seems like they are everywhere.
Pride and bigotry are not one in the same, and for Black women that will only marry black men, you understand what I’m talking about.
The rest is cultural. Many black men see a strong educated black woman as a threat to their manhood… white men expect and appreciate education in their partner. In that regard a strong attractive black woman and white men like my self make a good match. I just have a problem with seeing 90% of my visible genetic traits erased in my offspring.
I appreciate the insight and candor of this reader. So what do you think? Do black men see educated black women as a threat to their manhood? Do white men value education and strength more than black men?